By Steven Worth
President, Plexus Consulting Group
How many of us as children remember our parents pointing out that there was a reason we had two ears and only one mouth — could we please just listen? Apart from our parents wanting peace of mind, there is a lot of wisdom in this advice. But the temptation to follow one’s own ideas at the expense of what someone else may be trying to say does not stop in childhood. Many an association has followed strong leaders with more vision than wisdom down the wrong path, making mistakes that could have been avoided had more importance been placed on listening.
How many of us as children remember our parents pointing out that there was a reason we had two ears and only one mouth — could we please just listen? Apart from our parents wanting peace of mind, there is a lot of wisdom in this advice. But the temptation to follow one’s own ideas at the expense of what someone else may be trying to say does not stop in childhood. Many an association has followed strong leaders with more vision than wisdom down the wrong path, making mistakes that could have been avoided had more importance been placed on listening.
Do any of the following scenarios
seem familiar?
- Mindful that his term of office was coming to a close,
the chairman of the board of a major professional society pushed for his
fellow board members to ignore market research findings which pointed to
the need for the association to form strategic alliances with other
associations in the industry as they developed and introduced a new
professional certification. Such an ally-building process would be too
time-consuming and would necessarily compromise his vision of what should
be done.
- The board of directors of another association is
persuaded that the time had come for the organization to merge with a much
larger association. The association simply didn’t have the clout its
members needed to have its voice heard in Washington. The association had
no desire to survey its membership on this since the need seemed so
obvious.
- Concerned about the motives of some of the members of
his board of directors, an executive director of a large foundation took
great care to select a strategic planning facilitator whom he knew and had
confidence in. He wanted to assure that no policy initiatives were going
to come out of this strategic planning exercise that he did not want.
In each of these examples either the
board of directors or the executive director made a decision to limit outside
influence in a predetermined policy direction. This decisiveness guaranteed
speedy action — but was it in the right direction?
The association community across the
country has never known greater turmoil. The number of associations being
formed, merged, or downsized is at record levels. In such a highly charged
environment decisive leadership is welcome. But it is also true that what one
does not know can often prove fatal.
The distinguished British statesman
Benjamin Disraeli once noted, "As a general rule, the most successful man
in life is the man who has the best information…." The same is true for
associations. But is it possible for an association to act decisively while
still allowing for a thorough gathering of information? Some associations do.
They do so by:
- Making time and resources available for thorough
strategic planning on a regular basis. Market conditions are changing so
rapidly that most associations now undertake strategic planning exercises
once every two years.
- Starting the process with factual research into your
members’ market — chances are you are sitting on the answers to key
problems or opportunities. You just need to find them. Such research also
lessens the degree of subjectivity that inevitably creeps into policy
discussions.
- Limiting the instinct to "control." Use
respected outside consultants who have a demonstrated understanding of
your association to provide the objectivity that is needed — then let go.
Know that you are only doing yourself and your association a disservice if
you try to predetermine the results.
Of these three points, the last is
without doubt the hardest. We all know associations are great lumbering things
that require dynamic and focused individuals to get them to move in any
direction. But sometimes these very leadership qualities interfere with the "listening"
process that is needed if the right decisions are to be made.
The hardest part of association
management is dealing with the many differing points of view, personalities,
and interests that are involved in every association. This can be a frustrating
experience for those coming from the military-like decision-making structures
of most for-profit corporations. But there are two ways of viewing this flat
decision-making environment: one is as an obstacle to overcome; the other is as
an information-rich environment in which new opportunities and creative
solutions to old problems are waiting to be discovered. The key is to foster a
culture in which listening is valued.
It’s been said that President John
F. Kennedy was such an avid and alert listener that it was exhausting to talk
with him. Viewed in this light, listening is far from being a passive state. It
is active, exhaustive, and methodical. And it might just be the key to your
association’s future.